Hello, my name is Stefanie and I have an addiction

To Friday Night Lights and Pinterest.

Let me just say, I had been told SEVERAL times to try Friday Night Lights but it wasn't until last week when I had some time on my hands (maybe too much time) that the obsession began. I may have watched over half the first season in one day/night. It is just SO good. I think my students are concerned with my love but I'm telling you, it's awesome.



The show has a little of everything. Drama, sports, humor. It's just...addicting. I did not finish season one this week but I assure you, I will. There are five seasons and luckily Sarah owns all five so I can just power through, though I fear what it will be like when I watch that final episode.

My favorite character is of course Matt Saracen :)



So yes, I am addicted. I will start using Coach's sayings in ACE meetings and adapt them as my own. My current favorite is: "There are two ways to do something my way and the wrong way". We will see how that works. :)

My other addiction: pinterest. Basically it just allows me to find recipes I want to make, outfits I want to wear and other things I love plus I get to see what my friends find. It's awesome and addicting.

Anyway, I know this will blow people's minds but I have a wedding this weekend. My dear pledge sister Kathleen gets married on Saturday so I am going to see my boo LK and we'll be living the dream with many of our other favorite people. I will be spending extra love time with LK since she is moving to LOUISIANA next month to start her new job at McNeese State. I am of course so excited for her but man that will be far!

I have to thank Miss. Jennifer Stollery for a card that made my day today. Between her and Kelly Ann Shanley they have brightened my week with love notes and I appreciate it.

In closing... I would like to share that I will be dressed as Dorothy tomorrow for my second year as the leading lady in the Campus Activities Goulish Gala competition. If you do recall I was Snow White last year.

This costume will be less homemade. :) I promise.

Peace and Blessings xoxo

Things I shouldn't quit my job to do...

Blog. Well there are probably several other things I shouldn't quit my job to do but I will spare you that list. An exotic dancer tops it off.

Well to follow up on my last post, the speech was written and delivered:

I would argue it went pretty well... some laughs, some tears, what more you want in an MOH speech? I will let Mrs. Best be the true judge, but based on her tears and laughs I'd say, it was a hit.

The truth is I would've done anything to make that day perfect for her, luckily I didn't have to, the man at the end of the isle is all she needed. I am so happy for Mr. & Mrs. Best who got back from their honeymoon in Antigua this week.

A few more pictures from the wedding:

There are more pictures to come but it was an incredible weekend and I am so lucky to have gotten to share it with so many of the people I love.

Other than that... October is chugging along. Last weekend I traveled with 7 of my students to Myrtle Beach, SC for the NACA south conference. We had a great time but if some of you recall last year there was a prank done by my students involving a mask. This year, my students tried to one up last years group by purchasing plastic seagulls (seahawks if you will) and rigging them up in the closet where my banquet dress hung so as to tap into my fear of waterfowl. Lucky for me, they had to check out of the room before I was able to get to the closet and therefore, their prank turned into stuffing my purse with the plastic waterfowl. They did however act out the prank and video tape it which I'm sure will make it's way to my facebook page soon.

My true concern: the plastic fowl are missing. Therefore, I fear when they will resurface. I live in fear.

This weekend is my only uneventful one of the month, next weekend I will travel to see one of my wonderful pledge sisters, Kathleen, get married. Sarah and I are hosting friends tonight for "Fall fun". For me, this means pumpkin flavored things, soups in the crock pot, apple cider (the adult kind). For my roommate, this means bedazzling pumpkins. For those of you who don't know my roommate, she loves anything with glitter :) Exhibit A.

I hope everyone out there is well. I sadly know so many people going through some challenges right now I just want to send love to anyone who has something challenging them right now. As silly as it sounds, you can't appreciate the good without the bad. Just know whether it's me or someone else in your life remember there is always someone to lean on.

Lots of love from Stefanie Jo

Things I Never Thought I'd Be...

Speechless? Somehow though, the idea of writing my maid of honor speech for Miss Kelly Ann Shanley is leaving me with nothing to say. Or maybe it's just the opposite there is so much to say and not enough time to say it. What do you say to your best friend, of 10 years, the sister you didn't have, on the happiest day of her life?

Well let's be honest, she doesn't care what I say. It's her wedding day, she just wants to make sure I do not expose her deepest, darkest, secrets. Well, maybe not those, just her terrible stories that I have to remind her of every once and a while just so she knows someone hasn't forgotten. But the truth is, on her wedding day I know the last thing on Kelly's mind is my speech.

My friends, on the other hand, are taking bets, counting down, and well... have been excited about this since we all started thinking about weddings. I've threatened Kelly with heinous things I can do during the speech for the past 10 years probably and the truth is, I've talked about them so much, it won't have the shock factor I'm looking for. I will figure it out. I always do. I had three speeches prepared when I graduated high school so you would think this would come more naturally.

In other wedding news... no, I'm not engaged, let's be real. The other news is that yesterday I sent Angela the first draft of our wedding song for the Best/Shanley wedding. To be fair, that involves rhyming so it's impressive that it's done. This weekend during the JMU tailgate, we will rehearse. Lasso that!

The past few weeks have been fun. I had some sweet visitors the past few weekends. My sisters came two weeks ago in search of the beloved Dawson. Luckily for Ashley Jones, we found him :)

and enjoyed a night out :)

So we had this little thing called a Fall Concert last week and let me tell you, it was awesome. I could not have been prouder of my group. If I could get my phone to send pictures to my email properly I would show you. So, check out my facebook for a video for "Dare You to Move" by Switchfoot.

We also celebrated the birthday of one of my favorite friends, Miss Katherine Ann Kolkemeier by enjoying a night at Wine and Design where you get to bring your own wine and they teach you to paint :)

In closing, I'm confused why friends value taking pictures of me sleeping so damn much. I mean really, am I that cute when I sleep, or is it that I can just fall asleep ANYWHERE?

Just let me live, please :)

I'm THAT girl...

I think it is important to own your identity whether it's something your proud of or something unavoidable therefore I'd like to publicly share all some of these things with you:

I'm that girl...

-who checks the tag on the item of clothing for the price before trying it on
-who dances in public and doesn't care
-who shouts to their friend in the movie theater to tell them where we are seated
-who laughs and makes other cringe
-who eats the same thing for lunch for a week straight
-who tells all her friends about her newest crush
-who loves her job
-who would rather read a magazine than a book
-who writes a blog because she's a bad writer and hopes it will help her get better
-who checks twitter more than cnn.com
-who listens to the same song over and over onces she decides she likes it (shout out to LK who HATED this as my roommate).
-who still asks her mom for advice
-who doesn't mind always being the bridesmaid
-who loves to be the center of attention but only when she's in control
-who loves to be in control
-who watches bad movies on tv just because they are on
-who still wishes it was socially acceptable to make song lyrics my away message to articulate how I feel
-who drinks white over red
-who refers to her sorority sisters still as her "big" "little" and "gbaby"
-who still loves being a sorority woman
-who is convinced the lasso is a great dance move
-who loves getting a card in the mail or a note on my desk more than anything on earth
-who plans for the worst but hopes for the best
-who wants to make others happy
-who loves a soft pretzel
-who can't spend less than $50 at Target
-who can't resist a cute sundress
-who matches her eye shadow to her outfit
-who makes jokes to make others feel better
-who teases people she likes
-who doesn't pay much attention to those she doesn't
-who thinks the glass is always half full
-who thinks people deserve a chance
-who gives her whole heart without thinking twice
-who can't do a push up
-who works out only so her pants fit
-who isn't embarrassed to share her weight or her pants size
-who makes corny jokes
-who is awkward around...everyone
-who orders what's on special
-who loves a good sandwich more than any other meal
-who makes her own spaghetti sauce
-who winks but it's not cute
-who wears heels to feel pretty
-who wears flats to feel comfortable
-who prefers a good meal with friends more than anything else
-who only camps for s'mores
-who roots for two teams that everyone else hates
-who wears teal every Tuesday
-who learns more from her students than she teaches them
-who cracks her neck in public
-who rewrites songs about her friends
-who blogs about who she really is, not about who she wants people to think she is.

That's all I have for now.

Peace and Blessings xoxo

Deep in my heart, I love my...

Well clearly for my sisters you know the rest of this line is "My ADPi's" and the truth is I do, among other things right now. This weekend was recruitment here at UNCW and my first time on the advisor side. Let me tell you, it almost gets crazier behind the curtain. Luckily, I have two amazing sisters who advise with me and kept me laughing all weekend. Even when it was 4 am and we were on a bench in the dark. Even when salt and vinegar chips were dinner. Even when the the conversations turned grouchy and or random. We laughed, and laughed and laughed. Today, when I saw those 32 new girls come in with their bids, one being a student of mine, with tears in their eyes. I knew it was worth it and man did I remember the day I got mine. Being in Alpha Delta Pi changed me life. My sisters have forever changed me and I continue to grow and learn from them every day. Now, it's not only my Epsilon Chi sisters, but my Eta Alpha sisters both alum and active members. So I must give a shout out to Whitney and Katherine, my two advisor sisters who put up with bell curves, 100%, skateboards, nike shorts, Chilies, MOH and tons more and kept me laughing through the late hours of the night. It's amazing to me that hearing the words from the preference ceremony brought me back to my time in Epilson Chi so quickly, perhaps not as quickly as the SHHHHHing before the the knock before a party, or the excitement of "SHE HAS TO BE MY DIAMOND", or the dance practice and awkward conversations but man oh man did I quickly remember what it was to be on the chapter side of recruitment. Overall it was a great weekend, and today, like most days, I was proud to be an ADPi. 

Luckily... 6 of my dear Epsilon Chi sisters are coming this weekend and I can only imagine the stories, laughs and craziness that will come of it. Stories to come. I promise.

Like I said, deep in my heart I love my ADPi, among other things.  Have I told you how much I love my ACErs, because man I do. They have each planned and implemented some amazing programs over the past month and I could not be prouder. On top of that, they have sold out their fall show, Anberlin and Switchfoot.  Talk about an exciting start to the year. I am reminded every day that I am luckily to have found a job I love so much and to work with students who day after day make me proud.

And of course, deep in my heart I love, my family and friends. The past two months have seemed crazy. Through it all I have had the most amazing support network. Whether it's a dinner date to take a break from the craziness, and e-mail from my roommate to make me smile, a card in the mail from my mom or far away friend, or a weekend at home just when I needed it. I am lucky to have people around me who love me so much and continue to support me, whether I ask for it or not. 

In other news... I got to be a part of something really awesome which was a student initiative to commemorate 911 check it out!  (yes that is me in the red pants... hottie)

Other than that I'm just living the dream... hope you are doing the same :)

xoxo  Stef

Cher's not the only one who wants to turn back time...

Hello Friends,

First I must say happy first day of school to all my teacher friends. I can't believe it has been two years since I myself was taking classes, even longer since it was my first day of school K-12. I was in Virginia Beach this weekend and drove back to Wilmington this morning. As I drove back and noticed all of the kids waiting for the bus, or walking to school and listening to the morning radio stations I couldn't help but think back to my time in school.

Do you ever wish you could go back to a certain day in your life and live it over? I guess it's normal but I started thinking about what would be my days...
Here is what I came up with:

-First day of senior year
-Ring Dance
-Any day with my Dad
-First day of college
- 2008 CHI burning
- High School Graduation
-CWSCA elections 2003
-My bid day (January 2005)
-Workshop staff year 3
-Three 6 Mafia/Girl Talk Concert at JMU
-PCB spring break in Spinkers
-Job interview at UNCW
-Big/Little night spring 2006
-The first DGSC night
-21st birthday party at Theta Chi

I'm sure there are so many more days, but I figured those are the ones that jump out. Some of course because they are so fun, others because I'd love to pay more attention to certain details of the day. There are so many more days that are simple and fun and I can't identify with a particular event.

I know I'm getting deep on a Tuesday night. Perhaps this week is one of reflection, I think the entire nation will be reflecting on 9/11, and our lives this week. I'm sure everyone can remember where they were or what they were doing. "I can't believe it's been 10 years" I think is what everyone is saying, can you believe it? I have tried to avoid all the interviews and tv specials, mainly to avoid crying. It's unimaginable what happened that day, and how different our lives are since.

In other news, my newest obsession is the app Heytell. If you have an Iphone or Android phone you can download it for free. It is basically a walkie-talkie app that allows you to "hey tell" someone what's going on. It basically is a voice recorded text message. If you don't have it, download it and hey tell me, ASAP :)

I think that's all of my thoughts of the day...

                                                            Super fun weekend at home

See ya Irene

Hello Friends,

Just an update, clearly, if I'm blogging I am in fact alive and ok. Irene knocked us around a bit last night but overall everything is ok. I'm currently without power at my apartment but luckily the beautiful Adrienne Strain has let me stay with her last night and bath/hang out today before work so all is ok. We had to reschedule our comedians for this weekend, Frangela, However, we will be showing free movies tonight to give the students, who were stuck in their halls all night and half of today something free and fun to do.

Overall, move-in and welcome have gone beautifully. I could not be prouder of my board this year who kicked off welcome with an outdoor showing of The Incredibles and followed it up with a concert  featuring Sleeper Agent and fireworks. We will continue on tonight and throughout the week.

All of this craziness of course makes me excited to be in VB next week with my family and friends. It's hard to believe we're almost a month away from the Best wedding, which, means song and speech writing need to begin. Suggestions for Angela and I will be entertained, however, I can tell you, we only get better with time. :)

Today is one of my favorite people in the entire world's birthday, Mr. James Michael Vincent Oliverie aka Jimmy O. He is turning 25 today and is avoiding all hurricane craziness in his new home, St. Paul, MN. As many of you know Jimmy is one of my best friends from JMU and I have been lucky to have him in my life since my first week of graduate school where we became instant friends. I am sending him lots of love today. He is truly one of the kindest, funniest, smartest and greatest people I know. I am lucky to call him my best friend and know those of you who know him would have to agree :)

This week will be another crazy one. As many of you know I've started teaching a freshman seminar this semester in one of our learning communities here at UNCW. I had a great first day of a class and can tell my class is going to be awesome already. I am sure I'll have so many stories to share with you. I assigned my first homework assignment and half the class has already submitted it (it's due on Monday). I spent last night reading and leaving comments on these initial journals. My biggest observation is that I need to help these students find better restaurants. I ask each of them their favorite place to eat and things like Olive Garden and Ruby Tuesdays come up quite often. Luckily, Wilmington is filled with several amazing local chains that I am happy to introduce them to.

Ok! I think that is all for now. Stay safe 757 and the rest of the North East, I'm sorry I couldn't keep Irene away from you longer.

Always,

Stefanie Jo